Child Custody & Support

YOUR FAMILY'S FUTURE MATTERS!

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Prioritizing Your Child’s Well-Being

Child Custody & Support

Few legal issues are more emotionally charged than those involving children. It doesn’t matter whether you’re going through a divorce or separating from a partner; your top concern is likely your child’s well-being, and rightly so. At Hand & Toker, LLC, we’re here to guide you through the legal process of child custody and support with unwavering care, clarity, and commitment.

Our legal team helps parents reach solutions that protect their parental rights while prioritizing what matters most: the best interests of their children.

Why Us?

You can trust our team at Hand & Toker to advocate passionately for your family’s best interests with expertise and care.

Understanding Child Custody in New Jersey

In New Jersey, child custody isn’t just about where your child lives. It includes both legal custody (decision-making authority) and physical custody (where the child primarily resides). Courts prefer to award joint legal custody whenever possible, so both parents can remain actively involved in important decisions like education, healthcare, and religious upbringing.

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Child Support in New Jersey

Both parents are financially responsible for their children, regardless of custody. Child support is meant to cover basic living expenses, such as housing, food, clothing, education, medical care, and extracurricular activities.

New Jersey uses a statewide formula to calculate child support, which considers:

  • Each parent’s income
  • The number of children
  • Parenting time and custody arrangements
  • Childcare and health insurance costs
  • Existing obligations from previous relationships

Even though there’s a formula, child support can get complicated—especially in cases involving self-employment, hidden income, or high-net-worth families. We make sure that your financial information is presented accurately and that the support order reflects the true cost of raising your children.

How Custody Decisions Are Made

In New Jersey, custody is determined based on the best interests of the child. 

This legal standard involves several factors, such as:

  • The child’s age, needs, and relationship with each parent
  • Each parent’s ability to provide a stable and loving home
  • History of domestic violence, abuse, or substance misuse
  • The parents’ ability to cooperate with each other
  • The child’s preference (if they’re old enough to express it)
  • Any history of neglect, alienation, or unfit parenting

While we encourage cooperation between parents whenever possible, we’re also fully prepared to protect your rights if the other party isn’t acting in good faith.

Types of Custody

Litigation is often more time-consuming and expensive than out-of-court resolutions, but it can also deliver a fair and enforceable outcome when nothing else will.

The process typically involves:

Sole Legal Custody

One parent has full authority to make major decisions.

Joint Legal Custody

Both parents share decision-making responsibilities.

Primary Physical Custody

The child lives with one parent most of the time, and the other has visitation.

Shared Physical Custody

The child spends substantial time with both parents.

Modifications and Enforcement

Life doesn’t stand still after custody and support orders are issued. If circumstances change, such as job loss, relocation, illness, or a shift in parenting time, you may need to modify your current arrangement.

Likewise, if your co-parent is violating the court order or withholding support, you may need help with enforcement. We represent parents on both sides of these issues and will help you take the necessary legal steps to protect your rights and your child’s stability.

Parenting Time and Visitation

Even if one parent has primary physical custody, the other parent typically has a right to parenting time—sometimes referred to as visitation. Parenting time schedules can be as simple or detailed as needed, and we work with you to craft a plan that makes sense for your family’s unique rhythm.

In high-conflict cases, the court may order supervised visitation or restrict parenting time if it’s necessary to keep a child safe. We’ll help you navigate these sensitive situations with a child-focused approach and strong legal advocacy.

Your Partner in Protecting Your Children

At Hand & Toker, we understand that family matters aren’t just legal, they’re deeply personal. We take the time to listen to your concerns, explain your options, and fight for the outcome that protects your child and secures your peace of mind.

Whether you’re creating a parenting plan from scratch or revisiting a custody arrangement that no longer works, we’re here to stand by your side.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation with one of our compassionate and experienced family law attorneys.

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